A private Chicago matchmaker for men who are finished with the apps and serious about a relationship. Whoever you're looking for, you get one matchmaker, a real search, and every introduction made in confidence.
A 15-minute conversation. No cost, no obligation, no profile posted anywhere.
The apps were designed to keep you swiping. We were designed to get you off them, with fewer, better introductions and straight answers along the way.
No pipeline to manage and no endless first dates. We bring you people we already believe in, one at a time.
You'll hear what's working, what isn't, and what the other person actually said. Honest feedback, not flattery.
No profile for colleagues, clients, or exes to find. Your search stays private from the first call to the last.
Every client gets a dedicated search with its own network, run by one matchmaker to one standard.
We sit down and go deep: history, values, what has worked, what hasn't, and what you are actually looking for underneath the checklist. This is the part the apps skip.
We work our network and recruit actively on your behalf. Every candidate is met and vetted face to face before their name ever reaches you.
We arrange the meeting, then follow up with both sides for honest feedback. What we learn sharpens the next introduction.
“My family has run a matchmaking company for as long as I've been alive. The first introductions I remember were made on VHS tapes. The tools changed. The work never did.”
James Antonsen · Founder
Beau & Arrow is a small firm on purpose. We take a limited number of clients so each search gets real attention, and we tell you honestly what your odds look like before you commit to anything.
Every fee is published, every term is in writing before you pay, and nothing is ever charged before you've signed.
Single men in the Chicago area who want a long-term relationship. We run two dedicated searches, for men seeking women and men seeking men, each with its own network.
No. There is no app, no swiping, and nothing to browse. A matchmaker works for you personally and brings you introductions one at a time.
Through our network, referrals, events, and active recruiting for each search. Every person is met face to face, usually in person and sometimes on video, before their name ever reaches you.
Completely. There is no public profile and nothing is listed anywhere. Your details are shared only with a specific person, only with your consent.
No, and anyone who does is not being straight with you. What we guarantee is diligent, honest work on your behalf, and an honest read on your odds before you spend anything.
Yes. We work with clients across Chicago, the North Shore from Evanston to Lake Forest, and the western suburbs including Hinsdale, Oak Brook, Naperville, and Barrington. Intro calls are by phone.
Every membership is published on our pricing page. On the intro call we'll talk through which one fits your search. The call itself is free.
Fifteen minutes, by phone. We'll ask what you're looking for and tell you honestly whether we can help. If we're not the right fit, we'll say so.
See available timesNo cost and no obligation. Nothing is charged until you have signed a written client agreement.
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