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Gay matchmaking in Chicago, done privately and done well.

A private matchmaking service for gay men who are serious about finding a partner and finished with the apps. Every introduction is hand-selected, personally vetted, and made in confidence.

A 15-minute conversation. No cost, no obligation, no profile posted anywhere. For adults 18 and older.

Chicago-based, working locallyEvery match met face to faceNo public profile, ever
Who we work with

We take a small number of clients, so fit matters.

This is likely a fit if

  • You're a gay man in or near Chicago looking for a long-term partner, not a busier calendar.
  • Your time is genuinely scarce and the grid is a poor use of it.
  • You want someone screening on your behalf before you ever meet.
  • Discretion matters to you, professionally, personally, or both.
  • You're ready to invest in this the way you would anything else that matters.

This is likely not a fit if

  • You're looking for something casual.
  • You want a database or app to browse yourself.
  • You're hoping for a guaranteed outcome. Nobody can honestly offer one.
  • You're not ready to be candid about what you actually want.
How it works

Three steps, in order.

01

The intake

We sit down and go deep: history, values, what has worked, what hasn't, and what you're actually looking for underneath the checklist.

02

The search

We work our network and search actively on your behalf, within Chicago and beyond where it makes sense. Every candidate is met face to face before his name reaches you.

03

The introduction

We arrange the meeting, then follow up with both sides for honest feedback. The search continues until we get it right.

Your matchmaker

Fifteen years of matchmaking, and it started here.

Beau & Arrow began as a matchmaking service for gay men, and this search is still the heart of the firm. James grew up in his family's matchmaking business and has been making introductions himself for fifteen years, including matching gay men on WE tv's Love Blows.

You work with him directly. He meets every man he introduces you to, and he'll tell you honestly what your odds look like before you spend a dollar.

Read James's story

Common questions

Before you book the call.

Is this search only for gay men?

Yes. This division works exclusively with gay men looking for a long-term partner, from intake to introductions.

Who are the men you introduce?

Men we have met face to face and believe are ready for a real relationship. Many of them you would never find on an app, because they aren't on one.

Do you guarantee a match?

No, and we'd be lying if we told you otherwise. What we guarantee is diligent, honest, personally handled work on your behalf.

Is my information kept private?

Yes. There's no public profile and nothing is posted or listed anywhere. See our Privacy Policy for details.

Next step

Start with a conversation.

Fifteen minutes, by phone. We'll ask what you're looking for and tell you honestly whether we can help. If we're not the right fit, we'll say so.

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No cost and no obligation. Nothing is charged until you have signed a written client agreement.

Prefer we reach out?

Leave your details and we'll contact you within one business day.

Your information stays with us. We never sell it, and nothing is posted publicly. See our Privacy Policy.